Adult Store 101: The Sex Shop Reality

There is nothing taboo about sex or a person's individual fetishes...

***Unless it has to do with waste, animals or kids, personally, I think there is something wrong with those fucking people***

We've come a long way sexually in America although we are still a bit reserved, a new sexual revolution is taking place behind the scenes at your local adult store. For some, adult stores are scary, perverted, and seedy places who knows what goes on! Unfortunately, that image is true in a few cases :-( But if you have read any of the previous posts then you will have found yourself a nice one by now :-)

Keep in mind that most adult establishments are a melting pot of humanity...different ages, races, sexual orientations, genders, and fetishes will all be in attendance at some point or another. That being said...

SEX SHOPS ARE JUDGEMENT FREE ZONES!

You also may encounter objects and lifestyles you may not agree with and that's totally OK if you don't! You don't have to engage with anyone you don't want to...but to avoid any problems with other patrons it's best to keep those thoughts to yourself!

Two commonly seen (yet uncommon and confusing to most) lifestyles are Transsexuals or Cross Dressers. Most people aren't aware that these are two very different ways of life and I'll explain this as simply as I can for the common folk:

Cross Dresser or CD is a person who dresses/acts/wants to be treated as the opposite sex whether in public or private. They are fulfilling a fetish/fantasy or another very personal need to do so.


Transsexual is a person who is a different gender mentally, emotionally, and spiritually from the physical body they were born with. Many live as a different gender than their physical body, in a lot of cases these individuals undergo procedures both surgically and hormonally to become who they really are physically and sexually.

The mainstream is still fuzzy on this subject in terms of the social etiquette...but it's really very simple. Should you choose to interact politely, then the appropriate way to address these individuals is the same as if you were interacting with anyone else in your daily life! You address them as the gender their personality, clothing and manner reflects. It is also NEVER polite to ask about what they've got going on down below. After all, would you want a stranger asking you what you've got going on downstairs? I didn't think so!

Now, for those who are particularly shy and embarrassed at the thought of being in a sex shop...Don't be! You've already set foot in the store, everyone else there is shopping for something intimate as well. Whispering like it's a library isn't required! but don't walk around giggling like a crazy person making loud, negative comments about different items as you shop either! You may be making others who are more quietly embarrassed, uncomfortable or self conscious...think about how you would feel! It's okay to find things amusing...just don't broadcast it to everyone!

While shopping can be fun, always be aware of your surroundings and mindful of other customers in your section. It is not uncommon for patrons to make conversation, flirt, or flat out proposition each other. Being behind the counter, it happens to us daily so we are used to it but I find it only ever happens every so often between customers.

If another person approaches you this way and you have no interest, politely decline. However, if that person can't take no for an answer or someone is bothering/molesting you in any way: Alert Staff or Security Immediately!

***We hate that shit. It's bad for business and at a store like mine we have a zero tolerance policy for creepy assholes!***

The same applies to people who are OBVIOUSLY abusing "recreational substances" or alcohol.

***My belief is regards to "recreational substances" has always been "If you are gonna be high then be able to handle your shit in public or stay home!" I don't care what you choose to do as long as you aren't bothering others!***

The view from behind most counters? We really don't care what anyone is into...we are being paid to help you make your purchases and send you on your way. We don't judge anyone for their specific taste, we know what we signed up for and not much really surprises us...go ahead and try!

Bottom line is EVERYONE deserves to shop in comfort. Un-molested and Un-judged.
Let your freak fly Fly!

Happy Humping!